So many problems could be resolved simply by talking to the other person. Yes, sometimes it’s hard, but it’s also necessary and avoiding the issue only makes it worse. Talk to them. They’ll listen and they’ll be glad to help. And if they don’t? It’s time to move on to someone who will. Until you have that discussion the only one to blame is you. Your friend isn’t a mindreader and won’t know there’s a problem if you don’t say anything. Do both of you a favor and TALK.